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Are we true parents?

There is no way a kid will sit down with a stranger to discuss what challenges they are going through. The modern day parent is a total stranger to their children. Once the maternity leave is over, the parent and the child are separated forever. She goes back to work…The child is entrusted with a maid who can’t be trusted with the house. You lock your bedroom to protect your valuables but leave the baby with the maid!…
you come home in the evening very tired, no time to spend with the kid. At one and a half years, the kid is taken to baby care institutions. The kid is left there in the morning till evening when the parents are back. You pass by and pick your child, getting to the house your child is gets asleep. Over the weekend, you are either meeting friends or or in the salon. The cycle continues until the kid is in class 3 when they are whisked to boarding schools. Over the vacation you organise for tuition for the kids upto the last week. You only take them out for fun on the final weekend before they go back to school. That day we have no peace in social media.

The cycle continues until the young one goes to High school. Then you expect the teachers to perform a miracle. By now, you are at the top of the corporate ladder. You worked so hard to get there. But your son or daughter is a thug. You will spend all the money you accumulated and the rest of your time in rehabilitation centres for those kids. Believe what you want but the family structure was not meant to be a democracy where you share everything 50:50.
It is the responsibility of the father to provide for the family.
It is the responsibility of the mother to bring up the kids and keep the family together.
That’s not going to change just because everyone is educated. Let everyone do their job or we shall spend a lifetime solving problems we created.
It is schools closure time.

It is the mood that you are going to receive your sons and daughters from boarding school that will determine how much you will learn on what is making their grades go down daily.

I want to bring to your attention that there is alot of harmful learning taking place in school dorms. Homosexuality is the order of the day in boys dorms, lesbianism is the order of the day in girls dorms, there is silent bullying that has made your son or daughter to remain plump of late. Their is alot of drugs the students are using in dorms.

With all these sometimes one wonders if we should have boarding schools if they are agents of all this, anyway

Make him or her your good friend, check the types of tattoos she or he is having on different parts of his/her body, because most of our children have been introduced to devil worship while in highschool.

As a parent, you are responsible to the good future of your child. Make this holiday meaningful in terms of change of behavior for your son or daughter, do not just be harsh to them about their grades just because you want them to get the A mean grade and loose out on the real meaning of life, also be particular about his future life. Let him/her not get an A and die a drug addict, make the grades they get become meaningful in their future life.
Provide an opportunity for them to speak out.

Send to your fellow parent.

Spiritual Inspiration

Psalm 23 assurance

1 The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing. 2 He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, 3 he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. 4 Even though I walk through the darkest valley,I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. 6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.

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You Amaze Me !…

You amaze me with your nature, Same yesterday,
Same today and tomorrow,
The alpha and omega,
You are and you will be.

Am perplexed with your deeds
Amused with your wisdom,
In the short days,
You created all things
All perfect and good.

You amaze me with your dwellings,
You live in heaven,
And in hearts of the righteous,
But not in houses build by men.

You amaze me with your love,
You love the rich and the poor,
The sick and the healthy,
The sinners and the good,
You accommodate then in your house.

You amaze me with your mercy,
You forgive thieves and murderers,
Liers and the immoral,
You call them your own,
And appoint them in your kingdom.

You amaze me with your care
Carry no gun or sword,
You are an eye to the blind,
And an ear to the deaf
And a tongue to the mute
And a lamp in darkness.

You deserve to be God,
The only mighty one,
The everlasting king,
With no qualities of man,
Let all men be silent before you,
And kingdoms tremble before you.

By Aggrey Juma

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My God who…

My God who gives,
My God who takes,
My God who truly loves,
My God who carefuly protects,
My God who heals,
My God who comforts,
My God of signs and wonders,
My God the everlasting,
Take care of everything around me and your people,
Amen, amen, amen.