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Are we true parents?

There is no way a kid will sit down with a stranger to discuss what challenges they are going through. The modern day parent is a total stranger to their children. Once the maternity leave is over, the parent and the child are separated forever. She goes back to work…The child is entrusted with a maid who can’t be trusted with the house. You lock your bedroom to protect your valuables but leave the baby with the maid!…
you come home in the evening very tired, no time to spend with the kid. At one and a half years, the kid is taken to baby care institutions. The kid is left there in the morning till evening when the parents are back. You pass by and pick your child, getting to the house your child is gets asleep. Over the weekend, you are either meeting friends or or in the salon. The cycle continues until the kid is in class 3 when they are whisked to boarding schools. Over the vacation you organise for tuition for the kids upto the last week. You only take them out for fun on the final weekend before they go back to school. That day we have no peace in social media.

The cycle continues until the young one goes to High school. Then you expect the teachers to perform a miracle. By now, you are at the top of the corporate ladder. You worked so hard to get there. But your son or daughter is a thug. You will spend all the money you accumulated and the rest of your time in rehabilitation centres for those kids. Believe what you want but the family structure was not meant to be a democracy where you share everything 50:50.
It is the responsibility of the father to provide for the family.
It is the responsibility of the mother to bring up the kids and keep the family together.
That’s not going to change just because everyone is educated. Let everyone do their job or we shall spend a lifetime solving problems we created.
It is schools closure time.

It is the mood that you are going to receive your sons and daughters from boarding school that will determine how much you will learn on what is making their grades go down daily.

I want to bring to your attention that there is alot of harmful learning taking place in school dorms. Homosexuality is the order of the day in boys dorms, lesbianism is the order of the day in girls dorms, there is silent bullying that has made your son or daughter to remain plump of late. Their is alot of drugs the students are using in dorms.

With all these sometimes one wonders if we should have boarding schools if they are agents of all this, anyway

Make him or her your good friend, check the types of tattoos she or he is having on different parts of his/her body, because most of our children have been introduced to devil worship while in highschool.

As a parent, you are responsible to the good future of your child. Make this holiday meaningful in terms of change of behavior for your son or daughter, do not just be harsh to them about their grades just because you want them to get the A mean grade and loose out on the real meaning of life, also be particular about his future life. Let him/her not get an A and die a drug addict, make the grades they get become meaningful in their future life.
Provide an opportunity for them to speak out.

Send to your fellow parent.

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Work Or be a Slave

Work hard and be happy,

Work hard to smile,

Work hard and save your people,

Work hard or be a borrower,

Work hard or be a slave to the lender,

Work hard or become a slave,

A slave to them that worked hard,

A slave to them that succeeded.

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Work Or be a Slave

Work hard and be happy,

Work hard to smile,

Work hard and save your people,

Work hard or be a borrower,

Work hard or be a slave to the lender,

Work hard or become a slave,

A slave to them that worked hard,

A slave to them that succeeded.

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The toddler

Happy in her world,

She plays with flowers ,

And laughs at her dolls,

Not worried to eat and work,

Not careful because mummy cares,

Beautiful being a toddler,

But can’t be forever,

Now grown up,

It’s you to raise toddlers,

Not to become a bigger toddler.

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The Sadist

waiting for breaking news

with deep bleeding anticipation,

when will he fail in his works?

when will his plans be forgotten?

then “Good” news arrives,

His house was robbed overnight…..

he welcomes news with a grin,

i knew it , he says.

and bursts into laughter.

he loves bad news.

 

J.Aggrey

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Will miss you my friend,

Your memories on my mind lingers,

Painful groans in my heart,

I miss your flowered words,

Filled with gloom breaking jokes,

Now gone you are no more,

Cant imagine how its gonna be without you,

I feel pain as a friend,

What of your loving children ?

And what of your loving wife ?

They are grieved,

But have no choice,

Than tell you to rest in peace.

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Days of darkness

In the days of darkness,
When everyone sees no sense,
In deeds of humanity,
In the joy of unity,
In people’s liberty,
There is need for Justice.

In the days of darkness,
When demons are happy,
They feed on blood of the good,
And spare the bad,
For they are birds of same feathers,
They have no room for the good.

In the days of darkness,
Everyone looks for refuge,
All the good are prey,
Hunted by the wild,
Like fugitives have no choice,
Some succumb to dark forces.

In the days of darkness,
The poor is the puppet,
Tossed to and fro,
To benefit the master,
Who is hungry for treasure,
Does all wikedness for pleasure.

In days of darkness,
There’s need for sanity,
Wickedness to uproot
And order to plant,
And humanity to growy,
In children of the old.